My Victim Impact Statement Following Sentencing of my Stalker

In July of 2025, Christopher Mulley was arrested and charged with criminal harassment for stalking me, and one other woman. Chris had been making unwanted contact with me since 2021, which included unwanted phone and message communication, locating me on social media, showing up uninvited to my door, and even trying to enter my apartment without my consent, inviting me on walks, dropping gifts and chocolate at my door, and following me on the street. I would ignore his advances and told him to stop contacting me repeatedly, but he did not respect my boundary. All of this has been well documented, and I turned a detailed timeline and the evidence into the detective and the Crown Attorney. Police told him to stop repeatedly, and he did not stop and was ultimately arrested. He was charged with one count of criminal harassment for stalking me and one count of criminal harassment for stalking another woman. I am aware of three other women who filed police reports against Chris for similar behaviour that he was not charged for. Those women’s stories are not mine to tell.

Happy International Women's Day: Defining what being a woman means to you is a unique and personal journey

Womanhood is such an unpredictable journey. I continue to learn from the women in the past who paved the path of privilege that I walk on today. When I say they paved it, I mean it! They saw a path of dirt that wasn't good enough. They didn't know where it would lead. So they dug it up and ripped it apart. Burned it to ash. They levelled it out, trying to make it as even as possible. They mixed the asphalt with their blood, sweat, and tears, and paved their way through women's suffrage. We have a smooth road now, a direction to walk. Sometimes we still don't think we deserve to walk it. 

It's 2021: Time to stop calling women hysterical

I was moderating comments on my blog and discovered a comment left on my article Real talk: Does a veterinary hospital have to see your pet?. It said the article was very "crass" and should have "a rant warning." To be fair, in the first paragraph of the article I state I'm aware I'm going to ruffle some feathers and the article may sound harsh. The male commenter then said the article was "obviously written by a hysterical woman. Yikes." After some consideration, I deleted it.